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So, here we are at our Vacation home, the home we purchased for retirement, the home he has used as a bachelor pad.

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There is a woman who lives behind our “retirement home” she lives with her husband. When we first moved here it was her boyfriend, or fiance, who the eff knows what her title was. I knew something was up, but when I googled who lived at that particular address and she came up I thought “oh hell no, he would never go for her.” I was wrong. He did, and has, and does.

I listened to the people at “survivinginfidelity.com” and said nothing for the first months. I acted as if I did NOT know a thing was amiss. However, I have come to find, in these past five years, my H is a serial cheater.

Even though she is quite a few pounds that he would normally go for, I’ve found he is quite a few years more than she would probably go for… in other words: ” the each of them are low hanging fruit” poor losers.

It’s been a complete mess. I keep waiting for the: “I gotcha” moment, it’s not gonna happen, they are experts.

So, here we are, at our supposed retirement home, I am waiting for our children to finally launch themselves to leave.

There are others. Many. And, this blog, “Now and Then” will fill you in on the details of my H many affairs. And, I in between that time will prepare to leave.